Do you want to date a stripper? Do you know one particular stripper that you want to date or just have a dream of dating a beautiful exotic dancer? Have you tried asking a stripper out on a date only to be told that she doesn’t date customers? The sad fact is that this is a general rule for most strippers and it does take some doing to get a stripper to agree to meet you outside the club. So what should you do? Should you just give up or should you continue to keep on pestering her about a date?
The good news is that strippers may not date customers but they do date guys that they meet at the strip club. Does this mean that you should stop showing her attention or say no every time she comes around offering to dance for you? Absolutely not! These are opportunities to talk with her and to show her that you are different than all the other guys. Most guys will give up pretty quickly after a stripper tells then that they don’t date customers or they’ll move on to another girl… the next sparkly thing that strikes their fancy.
If you are interested in one particular stripper and she has turned you down time and time again when you ask her out on a date you should remain persistent in your requests for a date. As you get to know each other you will become more than just a customer and asking her out each time you see her might wind up becoming kind of cute palm springs Strippers.
Yes, at first you will be just another customer and her focus will be on business. After a while though, if you play your cards right, you will be someone that she is happy to see on a regular basis and you will notice that she will spend time talking with you when she isn’t busy.
How do you get to that point? How do you get her to be genuinely interested in you? Be yourself. Spend time talking with her about things that interest her. Every stripper is still a woman you know and women do enjoy talking about themselves and what is going on in their life. Give her the opportunity to open up to you and ask questions that relate to her life outside of the club. Avoid topics and questions related to what she does for work. Every guy wants to know why a stripper works as a stripper and how much money they make or if they’re putting themselves through school on their earnings.
Focus on her as a human being. Everyone has good things and bad things that happen in their life and women like to talk about their problems. The might not always be looking for a solution to their problems but they are always looking for someone to talk to. You could be that person that she talks to. You could become her friend leading to her boyfriend and before you know it one of your regular corny requests for a date will be answered with a yes instead of the typical no.